This book is full of useful tips, research to back up safe practices, drawings that are informative but not explicit- and most of all encouragement and sexual positivity. Its written for people of all backgrounds and preferences- while I am not into particularly kinky things there are some ideas, but they aren’t overwhelming. There is a very useful section on the importance of a sex life after baby and tricks for maintaining intimacy even when you may not be ready for vaginal intercourse for a while.The only thing I didn’t like is the almost constant idea that sex and sexyness are about objectification. I dont want my partner to objectify me- attraction is important but love and sex should be about more than your body. The recommendation that dads might want to not see the birth because they won’t be able to objectify you the same flys in the face of what I’ve read elsewhere- that it can be a very intimate experience where prtner attraction can increase... but its written for all kinds and so the mainstream idea that a woman’s job is to be a good sexual object isnt surprising. Even with that the book is very encouraging and constantly tells thebpregnant woman to ONLY do what she is comfortable with. Overall a good purchase.
